Obligational Emotional Blackmail

You Don't Have To

I was taught early in my coach training, to listen for obligatory expressions that have emotional spider web like strands attached, such as:

• I have to
• I should
• I should have done ...
• I wish I had
• He/She will be mad if I don't

Matthew 5:37

When I realized how often I felt confused and insecure, because I often said yes when I really wanted to say no to the requests of others, that were often demands in disguise, I was relieved. 

Learning how to say no to others while staying in relationship, and yes to what I wanted, changed the trajectory of my life, in every area.

Guilt and shame

Guilt and shame have corralled and constrained many a human from actualizing their freedom potential via thinking and feeling for themselves, and sorting through those thoughts and feelings too, processing them for truth and accuracy. 

Desires and drive

Messy thoughts lead to messy decisions, and I wonder, how many decisions have you made, that were based on someone else's demands on you, rather than what you knew was good and true, and aligned with your own desires and drive, to live a full and rich life? 

You Don't Have To ...

• Do what other people tell you you have to do
• Comply with someone else's demands
• Please others at the expense of your emotional well-being
• Give in, just because someone wants you to

You Do Have To Ask Yourself ...

• What do I want
• What will the outcome be, if I give in to their demands
• What does pleasing others cost me emotionally
• What does this person want, and do I want to give it

Clarifying process

Answering the questions above is a clarifying process that will foster freedom in your thoughts, and the resultant confirmation that you are always making your own choices, which in turn impact outcomes. This will give you the confidence to say no to what feels like obligational emotional blackmail. 

You are not someone else's toy to be tampered with

You are a grown up

You get to make your own decisions 😁

Tyrannical Tidal Wave

There was something called the sexual revolution in the 1960's. I look at my screen and what I just wrote, with a sideways sardonic and somewhat bored expression; labelling promiscuity as a revolution, as though it were a novel idea, is a most excellent bit of lascivious marketing:

Revolution: 

• a forcible overthrow of a government or social order, in favour of a new system
• (in Marxism) the class struggle which is expected to lead to political change and the triumph of communism
• a dramatic and wide-reaching change in conditions, attitudes, or operation

The dramatic, wide-reaching changes that we are experiencing are colossal catastrophes combined to cause mass destruction... the definitions of revolution that I include above are happening at break neck speed on a global scale, and I am confident I have an explanation for all of it. 

Explanation Part 1

Disobedience: failure or refusal to obey rules or someone in authority

We have, as individuals and en masse, committed heinous crimes against Authority. I am going to go right for the jugular here, and list the most loathsome and despicable crime any human being can commit. Ready?

Abortion: killing ones own child in the womb 

Going back to the sexual revolution, I ask you this: what happens when millions of people decide that they are free to have sex with multiple partners and it just so happens that some of the partners conceive a child, or two, or five? Just so you don't spend too much time imagining the intercourse part of my question, I will answer for you: unwanted babies become garbage pail waste; tiny humans become trash. 

Let's fast forward to the here and now: for generations humans have wilfully killed their babies. In our most recent past, many of the same people that profess things like, my body, my choice, have lined up to save their own lives, subjecting themselves to someone else's suggested solution for life or death dilemmas... what they don't realize, is the ones they have entrusted, are the least trust worthy of all. Like babes to the slaughter, they are now the vulnerable without protection from the grim reapers scythe. This brings me to Part 2 of my explanation for what we are experiencing globally as the human race:

Explanation Part 2

Take the high ground:
Obey God Almighty

Murderous spirit: when people are accepting of killing children in the womb, either their own, or someone else's, they are also accepting of killing in general. By not protecting the most vulnerable in our midst, abortionists are declaring life is expendable, destroyable, and disposable, depending on what works best in their current circumstances. Consider the Chinese Policy from 1985, of killing newborn baby girls; now we are in a position of Chinese overlordship, and murder runs in the veins of dictators:

• And here, I will make a connection that I sense is a curse, a plague of sorts, with Gods wrath mixed into the batch of bitterness that has been brewing in hearts, souls and minds for far too long: by disobeying God and treating babes as sacrifices to the sex gods, rather than treating them as sacred, those that approve abortion and infanticide, have taken into themselves death, via C-V shot(s)
• By not defending the unborn, via speaking against murder in a mothers womb (up to the point of full term delivery in some cases), many have committed the crime of collusion with killers
• Spiritually, as a messy mass of humanity, the debauchery has left us devoid of the protection that Deity promised to provide when we obey His laws, His commandments, His precepts
• Now, we have parents wilfully subjecting their children to the murderous spirit
• The combination of disobedience to Authority and the wilful submission to the murderous spirit has left the masses bereft of godly guidance, inclining them toward obeying the enemy of their soul

Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar and the father of it (John 8:44)

Compare and contrast

He that committed sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil (1 John 3:8)

And we know that we are of God, and the whole world leith in wickedness (1 John 5:19)

Biblical instruction

Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. Hereby know ye the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesseth, that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh is of God: and every spirit that confesseth not that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God: and this is that spirit of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and even now already is it in the world. 

Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world. They are of the world: therefore speak they of the world, and the world hearth them. We are of God: he that knoweth God hearth us; he that is not of God hearth not us. Hereby know we the spirit of truth, and the spirit of error (1 John 4:1-6)

Clarity

The Bible is a gift of clarity. God doesn't placate sinners. He doesn't make it easy on anyone that chooses self indulgent murderous and satanic worldly ways: as the Author and Finisher of Life, He makes plain for humanity what obedience to Him looks and acts like, and when we disregard His commandments, we experience the grotesque and bloody price of our godlessness, with Satan reigning and ruling in the seat at the command and control centre for the world. 

We are approaching the two year mark of totalitarian tyranny: evidence that God is permitting all that is heinous and previously hidden, to come out of the shadows and into the bright light scrutiny of those that have eyes to see. Which brings us to choice

• Whatever will YOU do, dear reader?
• Whatever will YOU decide?
• Who is it that YOU serve?
• Who do you entrust your now, your future, and your eternity to?

Many have taken poison darts, and my hope is the same many, repent of the sin, of trusting in deceitful men, rather than going to God to try the spirits whether they are from God. If you have unwittingly fallen prey to the devils schemes, God is mighty to save. He can, and will redeem you in your desperate need to be retrieved from hells fire. 

The blood of the unborn

The blood of the unborn cries out from the ground for justice, just as Abels did, when he lay slain after his brother Cain killed him: 

And he said, What hast thou done? the voice of thy brother's blood crieth unto me from the ground (Genesis 4:10).

Lastly, I know that the sins I have committed, the ones you have, and the ones our neighbours have under their belt, have brought us to this point in time, where we get to decide on a new kind of revolution, in an attempt to turn back the tyranny tidal wave that threatens to destroy us if we do not repent... 

❓What does this new revolution look like, you ask? this, dear one:

• a dramatic and wide-reaching change in conditions, attitudes, or operation

❓How do we do this? 

Obedience: quite simply, let us be obedient to God

And hereby we do know that we know him, if we keep his commandments. He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected: hereby know we that we are in him. He that saith he abideth in him ought himself also so to walk, even as he walked (1 John 2:3-6).

• Keep his commandments
• Speak the truth
• Live by the Word of God; live the Bible
• Abide in Him
• Live out your life like Jesus lived His while He walked the earth
• Love will be perfected in you, when you keep His word

Satans Sifting

Jesus prays
How astounding!

Luke 22:31-32

And the Lord said, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan hath desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat: But I have prayed for thee, that thy faith fail not: and when thou art converted, strengthen thy brethren

1. Satan desires to have you

2. He wants to sift you like wheat

3. Jesus is praying of you

4. Your faith does NOT have to fail

5. When you are converted

6. Strengthen the your brethren

Your faith may feel hard won, and it is. You are being tempted by Satan and tested by God; His love for you is your life force. Once you are fearless in Christ, you are to go out and be a source of strength for others

We know that whosoever is born of God sinneth not; but he that is begotten of God keepeth himself, and that wicked one toucheth him not (1 John 5:18)

It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not (Lamentations 3:22)

Trust in the LORD for all your earthy needs and strength, knowing He never leaves your side, and wants to see you succeed💖

The CO-V-ID Coven

On Sunday, Tim, our Victoria Park Prophet, prayed out loud and coined the phrase co-v-id coven. All in attendance stopped in our tracks in appreciation of this perfect labelling, of what we are witnessing in the world. 

Picture this:

Wicked individuals are pulled irresistibly East, magnetically drawn together. They recognize one another, nostrils flaring when they detect the slightly metallic scent of blood on breath. Eyes flash signals, questioning:

• Are you one of us? 
• Do you thirst for life force? 
• Do your ears delight in the sounds of suffering?
• Does your heart surge in revelry during the kill?
• How do you feel when their eyes plead and their voices beg mercy, mercy?
• Can you spot prey, like I can? 
• Can you sniff out weakness; and pick off the lame, those walking with the limp of fear?
• Are we the same?
• Are you one of us, or one of them?

Witches presented a problem

When I look around me, I observe enchanted people that appear spellbound. The witches groomed the masses that were inclined to delusion, and hypnosis, to gradually follow them to the boiling brew, the caldron awaiting their arrival. The witches created and presented a problem, then provided a solution, a critical cure; and the non sick patients, said yes, yes please, give us the cure for our phantom illness and pretend pain. We trust you have our best interests at heart. 

And so the witches did: they kept the non sick patients quiet and corralled, distanced from those close enough to cuddle... they kept their minds mesmerized and occupied to the point of fixation and ultimate separation with reason. They captured imaginations and rewrote genetic code, prohibiting freedom of thought and action. Those that willingly isolate ad infinitum, are also more than willing to permanently separate from all that have not fallen under the spell, and do not want the caldron cure. 

Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Galatians 5:19-21). 

Recall with a cackle

While the witches wink and pick the meat from the bones of their prey, they recall with a cackle, how the prey willingly entered into the caldron clearing. How the prey said me first, give me the cure first and make sure there is enough for everyone, repeating the taught to them refrain, I want us all to be in this together... 

And the demon possessed witches snarl, grinning wickedly, licking their blood stained fingers and lips. The conversation and recollecting heightens their insatiable appetite for younger, fresher blood, bringing them to a frenzy of frothing for the next baiting, grooming, and hunting expedition. 

Hapless unquestioning
compliance is dangerous

Here is our scriptural warning:

See to it that no one takes you captive by philosophy and empty deceit, according to human tradition, according to the elemental spirits of the world, and not according to Christ (Colossians 2:8). 

• Are you seeing to it dear reader, that no one takes you captive, by philosophy and empty deceit?
• Are you following human traditions, according to the elemental spirits of this world?
• Are you denying Christ, by being in discord, with His commandments, His judgements, His will, His Way?
• Have you found yourself stewing in the caldron, a ready meal for the witches that want to suck the life force from your veins and bone marrow? 

There are two paths: one leads to destruction, one leads to life eternal. See to it that you choose wisely in this earthly realm, which path you take:

Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it (Matthew 7:13-14). 

The Indoctrinated Inoculated

Oh, how I hate to write this three word sentence: the indoctrinated inoculated 

Controlled conformism

I met them today, those that have taken what they consider a necessary precaution, in the form of a shot or two in the arm. All rhyme and reason appear to be erased from their capabilities, disabling them from independent intellectual processing, and this begs the question of when?, when did they slip over the line from free thought to controlled conformism?

• I know what communism looks and acts like
• I know what group think and brainwashing are
• I recognize when a persons identity has been swallowed up with someone else's ideology, and when I see it, when I hear it, when I feel it coming off of them, it is like meeting a clone of a clone of a clone

They have a semblance of humanity, but their innards have been replaced with terror: the terror of losing their lives... there is nothing more and nothing less to this: they are scared to death of death. And that changes who they are, what they think, what they say and how they act toward, and treat others.

Quaking

Are you, a good Samaritan?

While canvassing for the Peoples Party of Canada, I had a conversation with a man, about him helping me. We were connecting, and I could see him quaking. I said I was confident, that if he saw me lying injured, that he would help me, out of love, one human being to another: he agreed that yes, he would. Prior to this exchange, he was adamant that his taxpayer dollars should not go to someone who needed medical care, that had not taken the mandated shots that the global government is pushing. Again, when I pointed out that he would help me, even without knowing my medical history, his jaw and lips quivered, and he said of course he would, and that he wanted to backtrack with what he had previously stated, and that he should not have said what he did about the medical care for those without the shots. I imagine in almost every mans heart, bravery wants to be activated, engaged, and utilized: perhaps this is what made him quiver, envisioning me, a small female, injured, and leaving me there without help... ?

Then his wife suddenly appeared at the door: she wanted me to see displayed on her phone, that according to statistics Canada, 80% of 12 year olds had received the shots. This woman wanted to prove that she knew what she was talking about, and that clearly, I was out of synch with government recommended mandates: even children were being protected from a deadly-rampant-everywhere-all-the-time-in-the-air-killer.

I met her gaze, told her I didn't believe the stats, and that children getting these shots made me very sad. She looked at me with shock and horror, eyes widening in disbelief, and then she began to laugh, and her man joined her, ending all conversation and heart to heart sharing. Her laugh sounded insidious to me, in its mocking tone. I have snapshot captured the beautiful sky blue of her eyes in my memory, and the sound of her loud laughter as I walked away from the two of them. God had painted those eyes, but her heart was blackened with the brush stroke of demonic hatred. I shook the dust from me, and left with my peace:

And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet (Matthew 10:14)

If the home is worthy, let your peace rest on it; but if it is not, let your peace return to you (Matthew 10:13)

Under her influence

The thing is, I saw him without her, and I saw him under her influence, and this split, this dichotomy, this dualism became clear and evident in a very short exchange. He wanted to love and remain in relationship, and she wanted to be right, at all costs. After all, if she is remotely wrong, she has been duped to the point of willingly harming herself, her child(ren), and anyone she encouraged along the way to get these shots. Worse than this, she is the head of their household, and she usurped her husbands authority soundly, in front of two perfect strangers (I had with me a canvassing partner). It is dangerous to have a woman running rough shod over her husband, and I witnessed this several times yesterday.

Shots are a seal

I met other people on the campaign for freedom trail yesterday. They too, had been inoculated, but alas, their kindness superseded their desire to separate from other humans: still, they seemed comfortably numb, as the expression goes, to the reality that they have been indoctrinated and in due course of time, inoculated as a result. The shots are a seal, they are an outward gone inward into cellular matter, expression of internal workings and beliefs. The many have decided that they are okay, with government impositions that curtail the rights of those that do not comply with mandates, while they become the publicly privileged, in grade school clique fashion. The thing they don't realize, is that this is only the beginning of compliance for them: it does not stop there, and anyone that has taken the time to study human history, knows how communism plays out. 

Blessing

I conclude this piece of writing by sharing the end of the trail experience my door knocking partner and I had yesterday. A woman opened her door to us, seeing the purple of my hat and shirt, and the first thing that caught my eye inside her home was the word blessing, written over her closet in the hallway. I knew I had come to my final stop for the day, the home of a sister in Christ. When she learned who we were, and why we were there, this energetic and bright woman told us stories of growing up in a communist country, without shoes, with rations that were sometimes rotten, and seven hour waits for food that was not enough to feed a family. She recalled house invasions in the middle of the night, and if within a household, the Bible, or even little strips of paper with scripture written on them were found, the invader raiders would remove the man, the father of the home, and take him to jail: for some, never to be seen again. She lived what our government is trying to impose on us now... and she doesn't buy it, will not comply, and revolts vehemently against it: she is a true Canadian, brave, strong and free.

Invader raiders

Look dear reader, at the weakened state of our society: fragile men quaking at their own front door when confronted with truth, as their wives listen from a distance, and then swoop in to shut down honest conversation and loving connection. These women do the work that the invader raiders did in communist countries from our recent history. Satan has done an extraordinary job of hamstringing Gods holy plan and structure for wedded life, with the man being the head of the household, as Christ is the head of the church, in the family unit. Delicate godless men have acquiesced to overbearing women, and the women have led the way to the line ups for poison injections. Christ is missing, The Bible is missing, The LORDship of God Almighty is missing from hearts and homes, and this is why we are facing full on dictatorship from the evil one. 

Two kingdoms, two sets of citizens

My conclusion, is this dear reader. We are free, or not, in our minds, in our hearts, in our very souls. The outward expressions of our inner workings are on full display, globally. There is now, no where to hide, because decisions that last a life time have been made, and the lines have been drawn with each of us choosing a side. There are only two kingdoms and two sets of citizens: each human will go to the King, or king, that they worship in this lifetime: 

Would not God discover this? For he knows the secrets of the heart (Psalm 44:21)

 

Plotting Genocide

And the king of Egypt spake to the Hebrew midwives, of which the name of the one was Shiphrah, and the name of the other Puah: And he said, When ye do the office of a midwife, and see them upon their stools; if it be a son, then ye shall kill him: but if it be a daughter, then she shall live (Exodus 1:15-16) 

• The king of Egypt
• Spake to the Hebrew midwives, Shiphrah & Puah
• When ye go to the Hebrew women
• And see them upon the stools
• If it be a son, then kill him
• If it be a daughter, then she shall live

Plotting murder

The king had murder in his heart and spoke it to the midwives that were called to help deliver Israelite children. These women were in the business of helping families: helping mothers deliver babies safely. Preserving life at birth is a midwifes calling and purpose

When the king tasks Shiphrah & Puah to kill, he is asking them to do his dirty work. This mighty ruler approaches two women and attempts to mandate murder. His master plan to wipe out the Israelite race, targeted boys: the girls could be used, assimilated into Egyptian life and eventually, all Israelite blood lines would be watered down and eliminated

Pronouncements and demands

Dear reader, nothing has changed. Murder is a popular past time for would be rulers; they display arrogant confidence in their public pronouncements and demands. They ask those entrusted with the care of the vulnerable, to do their dirty work: when one complies with the demands willingly, they commit first degree murder. Nurses have been assisting in abortions and now they are assaulting little ones with lethal injections...

But not all, not all have taken the orders of wicked murderous would be kings and overlords. Those that refuse to take life, those that protect the sanctity of life, simply cannot do the bidding of wickedness... it is an impossibility.

Contagion and curse

And what of parents? Are they accomplices in the murder of their own children by lethal injection? 

Those that have succumbed to the plotting and planning of genocide, the murder of their own babies, display a modern day mental malady. Rather than protect their progeny with their own lives, children are being sacrificing by the hundreds of thousands. Genocide requires bloody hands, and I fear this contagion and curse has infected many a household, as evidenced by the masses of willing participants in the inoculation of entire populations in some areas of the world 

Yes, yes indeed, parents are accomplices in the murder of their own children

The Almighty

Gods sacred gift is life

But know this... there is a remnant, a steadfast loyal to God army of soldiers that answer to One, that answer to The Almighty. You can hear their thunderous cries of FREEDOM in the streets: but more importantly than this, they will guard, protect, and fight for the sanctity of life: from the womb to the tomb, love starts at conception and continues on until each soul makes its way to their Maker.

We say nay, as our sisters of old Shiphrah & Puah: we will not do the bidding of murderers:

But the midwives feared God, and did not as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the men children alive (Exodus 1:17)